20th Jan 2K13--->
This day has alwayz been one of the most special dayz of my life coz this waz the day when 4 yearz back we met for the very first time...yes...it'z our anniversary day...somehow we are managing n continuing our relation...we are a normal couple who fightz a lot...are possessive at timez...understandz n care for eachother but still lovez eachother...but when I go to "FLASHBACK" I find our relationship "CHANGED"...considerably changed infact...!! ♥
The first year of our relation waz like I waz in "HEAVEN"...I felt like a "PRINCE" coz she alwayz treated me like one...it waz like we both were into eachother madly n purely...seemed like nothing more perfect could have been there...seemed like the almightly gave me everything I alwayz desired off...even more infact...at that time I used to consider myself the most luckiest girl...We used to talk 24x7...I still remember those continuous day night messaging...those 4-5 hourz midnight conversationz almost everyday...those hangoutz at different placez...those countless n special datez...those moviez...those chit chatz...that romance...that feeling...that lovely essence to be with him...those future planningz...those laughterz...that craziness...those prankz...that LOVE...seemed like life waz just perfect at that time...!! ♥
Itz not that we don't love eachother now...ofcourse we do thatz why we are together even after 4 long yearz but the essence of our relation which waz there at the very beginning has "FADED"...yes...itz almost gone now...now I dont get excited whenever we meet...now we dont talk 24x7...now we aren't into eachother madly...n most importantly now we have started fighting a lot...even at mere n stupid thingz we fight n that too for just no reason...I still remember we did a special celebration on our 1st anniversary but after 4 yearz today on our 4th anniversary we are not even meeting eachother...!!
I gave a deep thought that why this drastic "CHANGE" occured in our relationship...?? Where is that essence gone...?? Itz not that we don't love eachother then why has our love faded...?? I thought n thought n realized that the essence has faded coz of lack of the most important element in our relation "SPACE"...Space is the most important element in any relation n this is where we lagged behind...I recalled n realized that 4 yearz back there waz simply no space in our relation...so somewhere in the excitement n craziness of our new love n our endless chatterz we just blew away everything n all the stuffz in vain n saved simply nothing for future...thatz why presently at timez we just have no topic to chat on n why not..?? After all we never realized the importance of "SPACE"...but as they say..."BETTER LATE THEN NEVER" so I have decided to try n revive that missing essence in our relation again coz somewhere or the other we are made for eachother n we know that...so alwayz remember... ♥
"SPACE IS A NECESSITY IN ANY RELATIONSHIP SO TRY N MAINTAIN IT FROM THE VERY START OR ELSE THAT ESSENCE WILL FADE AWAY IN LONG RUN WHICH AT TIMEZ IS EXTREMELY DIFFICULT TO REVIVE...!!" ♥
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